Can Gay Parents Raise Children?
Some subjects will always be touchy when raised up in any kind of environment, but it takes seasoned mindsets to be able to assess a subject and give a reasonable answer, though I don’t think that one will be capable of illustrating a vivid picture when other minds are ready to explode their own hollowed tipped coppers out of forty fives, ultimately a debate such as this one is infinite like the expanse of the universe because truth is relative to the one who lives by it.
Luckily for me I do get the time to formulate a proper train of thought and present it to you so you can see my pictures, painted in the 3rd dimension. But before I do motion my train of thought forward I thought it was best to process elimination first, and I can only do that by tickling the screws that make insecure people tick.
Dear insecure people, I know it’s going to be hard to look in to yourself and understand your insecurities about the subject I effortlessly paint in to MS Word with my Midas finger’s tips, but understand that these are your insecurities, and there is nothing I can do as far as where you’re going to stand but wherever you stand, if you stand at all, understand that you must be thorough in your statement (should you choose to make one when finished reading through).
To all the other people coming on here thinking I’m Gay bashing, that article it is not. It is a careful tippy toe around a subject done by a man looking from the outside in, trying to understand a subject and making a proper assessment without losing an inch of the intelligence God cursed (and blessed) him with. If you feel disappointed then I suggest you read the paragraph before this because you fit within its frame. (Square!)
I personally don’t have anything against Gay culture, I couldn’t care less about it the same way I couldn’t care less about Mongolians. If it comes across me and we were meant to be friends then it becomes that, a friendship in the same way that I would develop a friendship with anyone worth befriending. The only time I dislike it is when it turns blatant, the same way I dislike when black culture presents itself as, “token black guys”
It may come across as ignorant, and it probably is but I liken being gay much like love and or hate. It’s something that the person catches because of the way they interpreted a myriad of happenings that unfolded in their lives. To be gay is not something anyone chooses to be, it’s something that chooses the person. It’s just like the dog chasing its tail statement in, The Truth About The Sexiest Women, it’s another thing that we shouldn’t waste time looking too deep in.
I personally don’t think there is a major difference in two parents of the same sex, or two different sexes raising kids, as far as giving love and nurture is concerned, the parents showing love to their child will be just the same gamble as a “normal” couple, BUT, there are a lot of other major problems in this picture and to better paint THIS picture I have to trace the picture of different sex couples raising kids, more specifically, single parents.
Can single parents raise kids? Or does a kid need both their father and their mother to raise kids? I am willing to bet you that even if you are the most pro-gay person your logic will tell you that a child needs their father and their mother to have a proper function or understanding of the mechanics of FAMILY and society.
There are various reasons but I will keep it light for this presentation’s sake, a child learns from what they see. A woman needs to see how her father treats her mother to have a good understanding of what she is looking for in a man, and she definitely is looking at her mother to see how she carries on in that relationship. That is the primary source where she learns how to treat her man and the same goes for a boy when it comes to treating women. (very important for any couple raising children, BEWARE of HOW you treat each other and explain the pros and cons of being together and how you deal with it)
I’ve said it before and will say it again; most women or men whom are single are more likely to stay single. It is just like the saying; a family that prays together stays together.
Another question! If I had to bring up two vastly different upbringings, Brady Bunch, Bundies, and or Fresh Prince (as shown in, Bougie People are Just Like Nazi) though they are fantasies, do you think that the way their parents are gravely affects those children?
Now, again, I don’t have anything against Gay culture as I have learned that there are three types of opinions you never argue against (and that’s sexual orientation, religion and political views). But, I do think that it is pretty much the same or worse than being raised by a single parent (in today’s society), a child has no understanding of MANHOOD versus WOMANHOOD and what it means to be either or because both parents are either two men or two women. So a child is presented with the same problems I bring up earlier when I give the example of the single parent with the psychological problems of separated parents.
Then comes society, the first scripture in the bible says God created Adam and Eve, and whether you believe in Christianity or not, ALL SOCIETY is brought up on Genesis laws. Even women (who aren’t trapped in the confines of their ego) will acknowledge that a man comes before the woman because they are used to Genesis but that’s another topic all together.
It’s a topic that we all understand because we are adults, but try explaining this to a child, then send that child out to society and have him try to make sense out of it in front of other children who mostly have the Genesis presentation of parents and upbringing…
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